I CAN
To get correct answers, one should start by asking right
questions. Here is few
- How many times you stepped back and said “Next time”?
- How many times your fear stopped you to address the big crowd?
- How many times you forced yourself to sit without asking any doubt in the training session?
- Why did you hide your face to avoid questions by your trainer?
- Why did you stand behind to lead anything?
We are done with few questions. Now let us understand what
made you to do so.
1. Hesitation: If you want something, you have to go and get it.
Otherwise your wish will not be fulfilled. Different people have different
upbringing experiences. Few people might have grown up in an orthodox cal way,
few might be reserved type of mentality; few might be scared of opposite
gender.
Here are few tips.
Have a chat with your
colleague on a lighter note. Wish everyone in your work atmosphere. Next time,
your mind doesn’t get any feeling of hesitation while speaking with them. Over
a period of time, you will be good at dealing with strangers as well.
2. Fear: People won’t
kill you, if you ask a doubt or raise your hand to answer the question. Your
doubts will not be clarified unless you keep your fear aside and speak. You
might have wasted time and money, if you don’t use the platform with the mask
of fear.
3. Don’t give up because YOU CAN: The easiest thing in the world is to give up. But you will not
get anything out of it. Just go for opposite. You will see the beauty of
accomplishment, sense of achievement and self satisfaction.
Next time when you
attempt something, be confident that you can do justice to it. Don’t loose
hope. Don’t be scared of repercussions. You can do anything if you put hope,
persistence in your life. Success is a series of small attempts. Sometimes you
may not see immediate results. Patience is important. Remember that you are
closer to success than yesterday. Your efforts will be trashed, if you give up.
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