Joy Ride or Hell Ride

When  I was a kid, I used to think about driving my own vehicle. And today is the time, I have my own.

Yes! I got my vehicle handed-over to me. The moment I was just about to hit the road, there was a bike coming in wrong side hit by bike. 

What is wrong with this guy? He got me a heart attack. It took money and pain from me to recover.

Everyone have to go fast somewhere or the other. Who knows where. Never bothered to think where can that take you to.

The most concerned factor is, ineffective use of vehicles on the road by  youngsters. The riding spree evolving out of their enthusiasm towards liberal life. It feels good and everyone felt it. But where is this, driving them to. Driving is a pleasure! No doubt in it. I myself live with it. But driving is, just not a phenomenon to move a vehicle. It also involves sense of responsibility with it. Now, that is what is difficult to be  developed now a days.

Almost every day we find one or the other cases of accidents in newspapers. I personally remember when three of my lecturer friend's students died when they hit a truck coming in opposite direction on a National Highway. It happened when the driving guy tried to overtake any truck. But the time was not sufficient. And on top of it they were triple riding.

Reckless incurs Panicky to the one sitting behind, and mostly to the people driving around you on the road. 

And many times it even costs life to others those who are not at all responsible for the situation. This is why I 

believe that driving requires a sense of responsibility.

It also applies to those who dont even care who is crossing the road or walking by the side of the road. Even if it is raining or any situation. Why is this so difficult to understand that despite of being in a car, we want to reach  home as early as possible. What could those people do, who do not even have a cycle to rush to their home. Well, here I am not asking anyone to drop them at their place. At least, we can have little sense to let them walk by the side, no being so senseless to drive without even caring if we are spilling gallons of dirty water on them. With this, I remember once a great man said "Despite of different positions we hold in our lives, we are all humans. Let us respect that.

I know it is always easy to say that it was other person's mistake. Just  before saying it, think for a moment.

"Is that really his mistake?". You don't even have to accept before anyone. You will get the genuine answer for sure.

All I want to say is let us making every ride a joy ride and our life, a happy journey.

Have a safe driving!!!

Safety as simple as ABC

Thanks for Reading

Vinay.Srihari.Mukesh

Its Me Who Is Hurt

     "I am nothing! I don't have anyone to go to." I know it is a rare feeling because we have our friends and family to guide us in such situations. What if the reason for this is your family or friends. Many times it happens that we feel dejected by them.

"How can this happen?" 

     Well, it doesn't really need to be a big reason. Remember something! It is just a feeling a person gets. It may not be intended always. For an instance, let me depict a situation for you. How will a new graduate student feel when his poor parents  ask him about getting employed everyday, despite of his rigorous trials.

     They do not intend to pressurize him or make him feel incompetent. But where do you think the graduate should go. To friends? What if the same old friends are already employed at the trials he failed. Now he cant even go to them. Whom can he go to. No one and this is where he started to feel that there is no hope and adequate talent to qualify for a job and he is under depression.

    But the question remains the same here? What should he do now to get out of it. It is a big and unanswered question to many of us. I believe that to overcome this kind of situation, he should do something he has been thinking of, since his childhood. And try to make this profession. Even if it is a small one. Believe me self-achievement feels great.

    Now a days, we here a lot about suicides attempts by youngsters. And the reason for most of the suicides is love failure or exam failure.

    Let us discuss about first reason first. My discussion starts with a question to youngsters. Is love failure worth dying and why. If someone ask me that question, I would say Love is worth dying not so called Love failure. I do not intend to disrespect someone's feelings here. All I want to say is if it is truly Love, why cant we wait to achieve it.

     I would like to say the same for exam failures as well that we have exams for a path to living but not that we live to get a path to exams. We can always try and clear the exams. Because once you clear and move further, a small failure won’t matter for you then.

    I also believe that every story cannot have happy ending. But do these failures really fade away all the love you have around you from your parents, friends and well wishers? Obviously, No!

It is not that I do not know what you are going through. All I am trying to say is everything can be achieved. All you have to do is live for it and try.

    Contrary to factors we discussed above, here is situation where due to one's mistake, another is suffered from depression.

  Very often it happens that children of busy working parents get into depression because the parents can't find time to spend with the children and often such parents send the kids to boarding school and the children spend the precious time of their life in a bounded place, away from their own people.

Hence, let us not neglect our children's lives due to something which we actually do for the betterment's of their lives. Else, we may lose the life for which we have done this.

Depression is a phase which takes us to nowhere and by the time we realize this, we already lose most of our life.

So, let us not lose the hope and give some of it to others as well.

Happy Living!!!

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Vinay.Srihari.Mukesh

Know It When You Have It

"I have everything". Ever felt like this before? I am certain that we never felt it that way. But ever thought? Why? What is that I dont have that makes me incomplete? 

When I pass by the streets, I see that there is an old woman sitting at the same place everyday with all the scrap and dirt all around her. And when it rains and we run to our houses to not get drenched in water, I get a question Where would that woman must have gone. That is when I get a feeling that I definitely have an important thing which many dont have.

  

I reached home safely. But I still didn't get the answer of the question.

 

Not just this, everytime we have food, we are never satisfied with food and desire of all delicious cuisines. But  there are millions of people in this world who dont even have a grain of rice to feed themselves. And we say that we dont have anything. 

I know time changes and we start to earn  good and we fulfil many of our dreams we dreamed of since childhood. Let us not forget who we are originally. "Human being". And there are plenty other human beings who need our help or support. They may not be our family but as a fellow human being, we can at least help them fulfil their dreams. Hey! don't worry. Their dreams are not big ones. Just fist ful of food and place to hide under from rain and storm.  

Believe me it feels very good to see the hope in their eyes when you spare a helping hand.  

End of the day, it is us who should make the move. 

Think of it!