"I am nothing!
I don't have anyone to go to." I know it is a rare feeling because we have
our friends and family to guide us in such situations. What if the reason for
this is your family or friends. Many times it happens that we feel dejected by
them.
"How can this
happen?"
Well, it doesn't
really need to be a big reason. Remember something! It is just a feeling a
person gets. It may not be intended always. For an instance, let me depict a
situation for you. How will a new graduate student feel when his poor
parents ask him about getting employed
everyday, despite of his rigorous trials.
They do not intend to pressurize him
or make him feel incompetent. But where do you think the graduate should go. To
friends? What if the same old friends are already employed at the trials he
failed. Now he cant even go to them. Whom can he go to. No one and this is
where he started to feel that there is no hope and adequate talent to qualify
for a job and he is under depression.
But the question
remains the same here? What should he do now to get out of it. It is a big and
unanswered question to many of us. I believe that to overcome this kind of
situation, he should do something he has been thinking of, since his childhood.
And try to make this profession. Even if it is a small one. Believe me
self-achievement feels great.
Now a days, we here
a lot about suicides attempts by youngsters. And the reason for most of the
suicides is love failure or exam failure.
Let us discuss
about first reason first. My discussion starts with
a question to youngsters. Is
love failure worth dying and why. If someone ask me that question, I would
say Love is worth dying not so called Love failure. I do not intend to
disrespect someone's feelings here. All I want to say is if it is truly Love,
why cant we wait to achieve it.
I would like to say
the same for exam failures as well that we have exams for a path to living but
not that we live to get a path to exams. We can always try and clear the exams.
Because once you clear and move further, a small failure won’t matter for you
then.
I also believe that
every story cannot have happy ending. But do these failures really fade away
all the love you have around you from your parents, friends and well wishers?
Obviously, No!
It is not that I do
not know what you are going through. All I am trying to say is everything can
be achieved. All you have to do is live for it and try.
Contrary to factors
we discussed above, here is situation where due to one's mistake, another is
suffered from depression.
Very often it
happens that children of busy working parents get into depression because the
parents can't find time to spend with the children and often such parents send
the kids to boarding school and the children spend the precious time of their
life in a bounded place, away from their own people.
Hence, let us not
neglect our children's lives due to something which we actually do for the
betterment's of their lives. Else, we may lose the life for which we have done
this.
Depression is a phase
which takes us to nowhere and by the time we realize this, we already lose most
of our life.
So, let us not lose
the hope and give some of it to others as well.
Happy Living!!!
Thanks for Reading
Vinay.Srihari.Mukesh
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